Tie and tease is a sensual massage built around two elements: light restraint and unhurried teasing. Your masseuse binds your wrists, or your hands and feet, with soft, good quality restraints, then works over your body with slow, deliberate strokes that build sensation and hold it there rather than hurrying towards release.
It belongs to the dark tantra family. Where a full dark tantra session may bring in blindfolds, temperature contrast and shifting power dynamics, tie and tease concentrates on the interplay between being held still and being teased. The restraint is symbolic as much as physical. Handing over control is the point, and letting someone else set the pace can be what finally allows the mind to switch off.
Every session is tailored, but most follow a similar shape.
Before anything begins, your masseuse talks through your experience, what you would like to explore and where your limits sit. You agree how the restraint will work and how to pause or stop at any point.
Your masseuse then binds you as agreed and lets you settle. Candlelight, warm oil and a slow start help the body accept the restraint, and as the body relaxes into it, the mind tends to follow.
This is the heart of the session. Using her hands and her body, your masseuse moves over you with strokes that linger on the most responsive areas, drawing out the anticipation for as long as you can bear. She controls the rhythm, moving between firm and feather light, between giving and withholding. Your only task is to surrender to it.
The restraints come off, the pace eases, and the session ends with gentle, grounding touch rather than an abrupt stop.
Tie and tease tends to suit three kinds of client.
People who carry responsibility all day and struggle to switch off. Being held still, with every decision taken from you for a while, is a rare kind of rest.
Those who are curious about restraint or power play and want a gentle, sensual introduction rather than a full dark tantra session. Tie and tease is often described as the bridge between the two.
Regulars who love body to body massage and want to give it a new edge.
No prior experience is needed, and feeling a little nervous beforehand is normal. Everything is talked through before anything begins, and the pace is yours to set.
London Tantric is an agency, and every masseuse works independently from her own private apartment in central London. For an incall session you visit her there. The address is shared once your booking is confirmed, and the setting is private, warm and candlelit.
For outcall, your masseuse travels to your hotel or home in central London, so the session takes place in surroundings you already know. Our reception team can advise which masseuses offer tie and tease incall, outcall or both.
London Tantric has been arranging sensual and tantric massage in the capital since 2012, and the more than 600 client reviews on this site are the best guide to how our masseuses work. Tie and tease sits within that same approach: the limits are agreed first, the restraint is light, and the session is built around your reactions rather than a script.
Browse our masseuses, or call our reception team and let them match you with someone whose style suits what you have in mind. Our lines are open seven days a week from 9am to 1am, and a same day session can often be arranged.
Rates are shown on each masseuse's profile. Book online or call 07793 203224.
For more background, read our posts on tie and tease massage and why you are going to love it.
