Do you want to soothe your aches and pains and melt away your stress and anxiety, all while bonding with your partner? You have to try a sensual couple’s massage. A couple’s massage is an intimacy-boosting ritual that is specifically designed to awaken your sexual energies, tease and titillate your senses and build trust and respect in your relationship. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship, in the flurry of a new one, looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or you just want to try something new and novel, you can’t go wrong with a couple’s massage.

In this post, we break down our top reasons why every couple should try a London Tantric couple’s massage at least once in their lives.

1. Boost Your Intimacy

We all know that intimacy is at the heart of all good relationships. Although difficult to define and impossible to fake, intimacy is that incredible feeling of security and connection that you have with your partner. It’s what makes you feel supported and loved with or without physical closeness; the spark that loads every glance and touch with love and affection. Yet intimacy can be hard to build and easy to destroy. It takes time to create intimacy —  after all, it’s carefully cultivated through shared experiences and personal memories.

The problem is that finding time to build memories and intimacy can be tricky. Even with the best intentions, the time we partition off for our partner can quickly be consumed by work emails, bills and children eager for attention. Unlike a dinner date or a night in, when you embark on a couple’s massage, you enter a space completely free of distractions — no phones, no laptops and no household chores calling for your attention — just you and your partner, a gorgeous masseuse, flickering candlelight and decadent massage oils. All of our masseuses are skilled in the art of intimacy, who will guide you and your partner through the experience so that you leave feeling more connected than ever.

2. Heat up Your Relationship

Picture the scene: your gorgeous partner lying naked on a bed while a beautiful masseuse strokes and stimulates her. With her eyes locked on yours, you watch her writhe with pleasure as the masseuse masterfully strokes and teases her erotic erogenous zones. Her pleasure will radiate outwards, setting your desires on fire. It’s enough to drive you wild, right? Far more than a fantasy, this is exactly what you can expect from a couple’s massage, and we haven’t even got to the best bit.

A couple’s massage isn’t only a deeply erotic experience to share with your partner, but it also has some pretty seductive long-term benefits that you will feel long after you’ve left the room. Many people claim that a couple’s massage improves their sex lives and leads to some seriously hot sex — and it’s not hard to see why. A couple’s massage is like a sex life primer. It teaches you to understand both your own and your partner’s body, pleasure points and secret desires.

3. Get Comfortable with Your Body 

Have you ever strategically moved the covers to hide your body, or swiftly turned off the lights before disrobing? Have you ever ignored your partner’s compliments and insisted that you don’t look good or sexy? Most of us have areas of our bodies that we’re uncomfortable with, but just because it’s common doesn’t mean that it’s not damaging. Low confidence can leave us feeling self-conscious, self-loathing and generally down. When we don’t feel our best, we’re less likely to be open physically and even emotionally with our partners — and that’s an intimacy killer. Is it time to throw off the duvet, turn on the light and embrace your body?

A couple’s massage gives you a safe space to explore your own and your partner’s body. With the guidance of your expert masseuse, you will be gently eased into a supportive and secure space where you are able to let go of your inhibitions, embrace your body and revel in its ability to be pleasured. A couple’s massage can be a powerful means of letting go of anxieties and insecurities once and for all.

4. Mix Things Up

Are you stuck in the same old romancing routines — the lavish dinners, the flowers and the warm baths? Maybe you’ve even gone the extra mile and invested in a weekend away or suffered through visits to the in-laws, but now what? Even the most romantically minded of us can struggle to come up with new and exciting ways of romancing our partners, so we end up cycling through the same old.

However comfortable our relationship habits may feel it’s important to reinvent the wheel once in a while and try something new. Trying out-of-the-box experiences and heightening attraction in this way can have a real, chemical impact. When we first experience attraction our bodies produce three chemicals: norepinephrine, dopamine, and serotonin. These chemicals have mood-boosting and energising effects helping to liven up your relationship so that you can trick yourself into feeling like you’re falling in love all over again –– sweaty palms, weak knees, butterflies and all.

If you’re intrigued by the deeply erotic, sizzlingly sensual and totally unforgettable potential of a couple’s massage, contact us today and book your own couples massage. You won’t regret it.