When people hear about Tantric massage, they assume, “is that not just a massage with a happy ending?” and whilst there is a level of erotic pleasure that comes from a Tantric massage, it’s so much many than experiencing a potential orgasm. 

Tantric massage explores a connection between 2 people that goes beyond just touch.

Tantra is deeply spiritual; it involves the balance and connection of energy between 2 people and is used as a tool to help strengthen your bond and create a more profound understanding between yourselves.

There are many different types of tantric massages, such as Nuru massage, aqua massage, or body to body massage. Nevertheless, today we will focus on the fundamentals of tantric massage before stepping to the next level.

But how does it work? Below, we discuss what you can expect and the benefits of tantric massage.

What are the feelings involved in it?

A tantric massage is not a “one size fits all” experience; no massage is the same, and the feelings that can arise from the experience will be different for each person.

The massage aims to help engage all your spiritual chakras and use the transference of energy to awaken and arouse the sexual energy, then consciously moves that energy around the body.

As the sexual energy moves around the body, it grows and builds into a full-bodied orgasmic experience for the receiver.

What Are The Benefits?

Whilst being a safe place to explore one another’s bodies in a positive light, judgment-free, the art of tantric massage is also known for having many other benefits such as:

  • Improving your sexual stamina
  • Improving the quality of your orgasms
  • Helping to ease pain
  • Providing stress relief
  • Improving sleep
  • A step toward healing emotional baggage and trauma.
  • Assisting in spiritual awakening

As well as the reasons listed, Tantra questions how we look at sex and sexual experiences. For most, the sole purpose of sex is reproduction, which comes with the requirement of penetration. When the reproduction element of sex is removed, you are free to focus solely on pleasure.

It helps you explore new methods of sensuality without the need for penetration, which those who have suffered sexual trauma such as a difficult birth or sexual assault may be wary about. 

What Should I Do To Prepare For A Tantric Massage? 

The setting and atmosphere are just as important as the massage itself. Before fully relaxing, you must be in the right headspace and be fully comfortable within your environment. 

So before your massage, make sure you take into consideration the following:
Time: As with most things, tantra cannot be rushed; ensure that you have set apart a portion of your day to fully immerse yourself in the experience.
Atmosphere: Be sure to set the mood with dim lighting, a scented candle and soft music playing in the background. It may sound like a cliche, but ensuring clean, fresh bed sheets can heighten your experience and relaxation.
Mindset: Preparing your mind is easier said than done, but a quick trick is to shut yourself away completely. Put your phone in airplane mode and even take part in some light mediation beforehand to ease your state of mind.
Oil: When it comes to any usual massage, you can expect oil as standard; however, when it comes to a tantric massage, body oil is pretty much a requirement.

Once The Mood Is Set…

First, it is necessary that you fully relax throughout the whole experience.

To get the most out of the massage, it’s recommended that you are naked; however, you can wear whatever makes you most comfortable.

The massage will consist of classic techniques, a lot of rubbing, and eye contact: traditional kneading massage techniques and feather touch mixed with erotic stimulation of the genitals and nipples. Once you relax into the massage and are ready for the next level, you can experiment with classic tantric poses. Such poses include Yab-yum, Seated Twist & Boat pose.

Ultimately the poses are designed to help you communicate with your partner through your body and eye contact without saying a single word.

During a tantric massage, you can expect a genuinely sensual, spiritual and sexual experience that can accumulate in a full body orgasm, sometimes even multiple.

Ultimately, there is no telling how your body will react to the pleasures of a Tantric massage; however, it is an enriching and fulfilling experience. Not only physically and mentally but also spiritually.

If you want to experience the wonders of a tantric massage yourself or are looking for a tantric masseuse near you, reach out to us today at +44 (0) 7793 203 224 between 10 am and 1 am, email us at [email protected], or book a massage in our site.