Sex is an amazing opportunity to embrace physical bonding and spiritual fulfilment with your partner, explore new ideas and get the most out of each other.

But as the world continues to open up about what goes on in the bedroom as society is increasingly becoming more sex-positive (and rightly so!), we are learning a lot more of what is happening behind closed doors.

At times, we can't lie; it can be hard to keep up with the latest and sexiest trends.
Still, below, we discuss current top trends and how you can pace keep up to date on all things sex, from role-playing to erotic massage; we’ve got you covered!


Role-playing is an all-time favourite way used by many to spice up your sex life and add some variety.

It can be fun and playful, but also a good way to communicate your sexual fantasies safely.

It's also an opportunity for you to try new things together without having them feel too intimidating, as long as they're within your comfort zone! There are so many different ways to play out fantasies like this—the sky really is the limit!

The Art of Tantra

As you probably know, an erotic massage is way more than just a tantric massage. It’s about the connection between you and your partner. It's not just about the physical act of sex; it's about the connection between your mind, body and soul.

Tantra aims to bring you closer to yourself, your partner, and, ultimately, a higher power. It teaches that everything has a vibration — including each person's energy levels and erotic massage techniques.

The goal of tantric sex is to bring these vibrations together to strengthen both partners simultaneously. 

If you are fed up with the toys and role-playing and really want to deepen your sexual experience, we strongly recommend adopting some tantric exercises into your sex life. 
If you are looking for a tantra guide, contact us today and we will help.

Self Pleasure

One common sex trend that's not going anywhere is masturbation. If you are discovering sex for the first term or just want to explore your body sexually on your own or through erotic massage techniques, then self-pleasure is the safest way to do so.

It's also a perfect way to learn about your anatomy and your sexual response cycle.
Also, If you are open to experimenting with toys, buying one designed specifically for solo play will be more effective than going straight into trying out a vibrator or dildo on someone else.

You'll get used to the sensation of having something inside of yourself before trying it with another person (if that's what you're interested in), almost like a practice run to test your limits and what you are comfortable with before sharing this with another person.


Yoga isn’t just about the physical aspect of working out at the gym or going on runs; it also helps people get in touch with their bodies so they can connect more deeply with their partners. 
Yoga in particular is helpful because it encourages partners to touch each other more sensually than during other forms of exercise such as running or weightlifting. 
In addition, this type of touching will be relaxing for both parties involved which makes them feel closer than ever before
The safe word

Safe words are essential when exploring more kinkier excursions in the bedroom. However, regardless of how kinky the activity is, even if it’s just an erotic massage,  it is always good practice to put in place a safe word with your partner because they can help you stop any activity at any time.

With a safe word, you won't have to rely on body language or nonverbal cues that may be misinterpreted as "keep going", which can lead to injury or psychological distress.

A safe word is something that doesn't mean anything else in the context of sex (e.g., "stop" or "no"). It's something your partner would never say during regular sexual intercourse and something you wouldn't think of saying without prompting from your partner—it should feel like a secret code between the two of you only.

When using a safe word, both partners need to understand what it means and how to use it appropriately, so be sure it clearly states this prior to any activity.

You also don't have to be engaging in practices you’re not comfortable with, you can always try a tie and tease massage, for instance, to have a safe word either; think of it as “just good practice” to help you feel at ease and comfortable during any sexual experience. 

At the end of the day, sex is a personal decision. So don't worry about what the rest of the world is doing; it's ultimately your choice how you choose to express yourself sexually. But If you still feel stuck, try one or a few of these trends